Let’s know about the misuse of NDA with involving children

In 2023 I published this illustration picked from Canva. I was in the deep foggy season.

2016 I and my kids came to Canada, and studied, experienced new life of Canada.

The misuse of NDA could happen when people around you don’t resist it.
For me and my children, it happened through my husband.

I felt like I have been researched all the time for about 9 years, and my children seems like they have to join the research. They looks they are restricted to speak frank language to me who is their mom.
And surprisingly I’m sure that they are restricted to contact people who they just want to be friendly. I see it because they haven’t tried to ask friend. They don’t know when going out until the inviting come. Who would call it healthy?
Who judge that they should follow this unhealthy rule?

If my husband doesn’t care about it, and as a result welcome it, it escalates. Which dad would do, which husband could do this acceptance of misuse of NDA? Such ridiculous behaviour that father forced them to do. It is an educational lack about raising an adult.

Raising an adult is a worth human societal task. Thank you so much for everyone who care for me and my children for a long time.
Let’s improve our community for stronger and
Let’s be a person who will stop the misuse of NDA.

I created a slogan, which is “Do Good Sh*t.

(Don’t follow the NDA in the family. Respect the time for raising important human beings. Follow the lovely family laughing time.)

Don’t be silent! about this!!!)

I put this slogan in the sticker, cap.
I hope you will wear it together for creating a stronger community toward 2026.
This is my Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/TeesForOceanLover

I couldn’t get any earning, it might be because of the misuse of NDA. So this earning will help me greatly to be independent. Thank you.

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Thank you so much and
May a lot of joy and laugh to you in 2026.